I am currently playing a game I like to call, "What's my job?" I'm now on my fourth week at work, but three of them have consisted of me in a conference room for 8 hours a day learning about things like cultural competency. Hellooo? I'm a social worker. Really what it boiled down to was CYA techniques big companies like to employ for risk management. If they prove you've received training on a topic like confidentiality, they can fire you faster vs. buying the "I didn't know" excuse. Its a good thing to have, but not when you are on the receiving end. This however, is not the purpose of my entry.
Yesterday I unpacked my office and figured out my email system. That pretty much took up the day. You see, I'm not really sure what I'm supposed to be doing. I have two executive secretaries so apparently I have a lot of meetings, but until I learn about those I'm rather clueless. The problem is, no one around me knows what I do because I'm supposed to be their leader and already know. The blind leading the oblivious.
Today I actually had two transition meetings with supervisees. One of my conversations went like this:
"So, you have four people directly reporting to you. All of them have very important jobs, but they can get monotonous at times. Tell me how you motivate your team." A nice way to start, I thought.
"Well, I don't really talk with them unless they screw up and their manager before trained them well so..." She looked at me sideways.
I tried to control my look of horror. Perhaps she misunderstood me.
"Supervision is an art. It involves feedback both positive and negative, but a really good supervisor keeps her team inspired. Tell me how you do that."
"Inspired?" Her brow furrowed.
Ok, my mental thesaurus began to spin while I was also calibrating her IQ level.
"Well, your staff are highly tenured, you know they have been here a while. Often times people will sit and stay for peace and pay. Does this make sense?" I paused and she nodded. "The years can often become blurred without innovation and support. Tell me how you positively reinforce their work and encourage them."
"Like I said, they don't really screw up..." She looked baffled like I had just handed her a quantum physics problem.
"Valued. Tell me how you convey to them how you value them as well as the quality of their work." She looked more assured and I thought I had finally made my point. She thought for a moment and then said:
"Well once I bought them lunch." She looked pleased with her answer and smiled.
I must have looked a little stunned because then she added confidently, "...with my own money."
Yup.
I suggested we begin meeting weekly for "coaching" shall we say.
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Ali,
Hey! I have been trying to get ahold of you but without any luck. I have called your cell phone but you probably don't have it anymore and I don't have any of your new info-address, phone number, e-mail. I would love to catch up some time and hear how you are doing and how things are going. I still have my same hotmail e-mail account and my new phone number is (920) 739-2514. Call me or e-mail me sometime when you have a minute. I hope you are doing well and I miss you!
Love,
Katherine
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